The terms of a custody order dictate how much time parents have with their children. Custody orders also describe how parents should share decision-making power. Most of the time, parents can follow the custody order as established with few major challenges.
However, sometimes parents recognize that the existing custody order does not work well for the family. They may regularly fight over the terms or need to make adjustments. Frustrated parents may have the option of going back to family court and modifying the custody order.
When can parents adjust the terms set for shared custody?
When they experience major changes
The courts may agree to review a custody order and make modifications when there have been substantial changes in circumstances. A parent taking a new job, a child enrolling at a new school or medical issues could alter the needs of the children and the ability of the parents to meet them.
Judges hearing contested custody modification requests have to focus on the children’s best interests, much like what occurs during the initial custody proceedings.
When the parents agree to change it
Parents can cooperate with one another to adjust a custody order. They can set terms that they both believe are beneficial for the children and appropriate for the family.
They can then submit paperwork asking for an uncontested custody modification. Uncontested modifications are usually faster than litigated modifications, but not all parents can agree with one another about the necessary changes required to correct their outdated custody arrangements.
Reviewing a current custody order and its shortcomings can help parents prepare for modification negotiations or litigation. Parents who keep their custody orders updated may minimize conflict and optimize the stability of their co-parenting arrangements.

