Living in the same house with an abusive person can feel frightening and isolating. It is even more challenging when you are a teen. It might seem like no one would take you seriously. However, the law in Pennsylvania acknowledges that minors can be protected, even if the abuser is a parent, guardian or household member.
While teens cannot file for a Protection from Abuse (PFA) order on their own, Pennsylvania law allows a trusted adult, like a parent, relative, guardian, counselor or advocate, to file on your behalf. If you are already included in someone else’s petition, you are covered, too.
Getting help when you still live there
If you are under 18, specific rules may apply. Here are some helpful things to know:
- Emotional harm counts, not just bruises: Fear, threats or ongoing intimidation can be enough. You do not need visible injuries.
- Someone must file the petition: If you are under 18, an adult household member, guardian ad litem or similar person can file a PFA for you.
- Emergency orders are possible: If danger is immediate, courts can issue a temporary protection order even before a full hearing.
- The abuser may be kept away: You do not have to move out. The court can order the abuser to stay out of the home or away from you, school or work.
- Keep track of what is happening: Write things down, save texts or take photos if it is safe to do so. Courts often want details.
- You might not have to face them in court: In many cases, you can speak privately with a judge or through a support person.
As scary as it feels, you do not have to go through this alone. If you are living with someone who harms or threatens you, remember a PFA is not just for grown-ups. It is a legal tool that also works for minors. With the right legal support, you can reach out, be heard and begin on a path toward safety.
